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Managing short-term rentals is chaotic; there are always calls from guests about being locked out, leaks, power outages, or clogged toilets. But every day, we meet new friends from around the world, each with unique and touching stories.
A few days ago, I met a mother at our Alki Beach apartment building with a 5-year-old daughter and an 11-year-old autistic son. From our phone conversation, I learned she is a night nurse at Swedish Hospital, working 12-hour shifts. Despite her good income, she pays $27.5/hour for a nanny to care for her autistic son at night, spending two-thirds of her earnings. Her work doesn't end there; during the day, she constantly watches her son, who often wanders off. Recently, the police brought him back after he ran out while she was showering.
She greeted me with a smile that couldn't hide her exhaustion. Her daughter is beautiful and lively, while her son, wearing a helmet and arm protectors, avoids eye contact and makes long, single-tone sounds. She explained that she never takes her eyes off him or removes his protectors, as he would harm himself.
When I asked why she moved from Atlanta to Seattle, she said Seattle has better resources for autism. She is applying for government and Seattle Children's Hospital programs, despite delays, and is also on the waiting list for Johns Hopkins' autism treatment program. She wants the best help for her child.
Her story resonated deeply with me. My own desire for flexibility, economic independence, and not missing any of my child's activities led me to start Valta Co-op. The pressure and pain are immense, but the freedom is worth it. Conversations with mothers often reveal they sacrifice their careers for their children or shoulder all responsibilities, neglecting themselves.
I am fortunate to have strong support from my mother and husband. This nurse, despite being separated from her husband, found he values family deeply. In our conversation, I pointed out how lucky she is, emphasizing their common ground: their four children, especially their autistic son.
This morning, she messaged me to say she reconciled with her husband of 22 years, and he is coming to Seattle to help her move back to Atlanta. I am genuinely happy for them; there's no better outcome than a united family solving problems together. I wish all great mothers the support and understanding they deserve.
